What Your Suit Designer Wishes You Knew Before Your Appointment

When you book your first custom suit appointment, it’s natural to feel a mix of excitement and nerves. You might be thinking: Will they get my style? Will it actually fit me? What if I don’t know all the terminology?

At Queer Suits You, we’ve had the privilege of working with people from all walks of life, from nonbinary to-be-weds to trans professionals to anyone who’s simply tired of “off-the-rack” frustration. And while we’ll guide you through every step, there are a few things that can make your experience even smoother, calmer, and more fun.

Here’s what your suit designer secretly (or not-so-secretly) wishes you knew before your appointment:

1. You Don’t Need to Know the “Rules” - We’ll Guide You

A lot of people walk in thinking they need to know every suit style, fabric type, and fit terminology. Truth is, you don’t. That’s our job.

What is helpful is knowing:

• How you want to feel in your suit (confident, powerful, relaxed, sharp, etc.)

• Where you’ll be wearing it (wedding, work, special event, everyday)

• Your general style preferences (bold colours? minimalist? vintage-inspired?)

Once we know those things, we can translate them into the right cut, fabric, and details - without you needing to memorise the difference between lapels or pocket types.

2. Your Body Is Perfect for a Custom Suit

One of the biggest myths in tailoring is that you need a “model’s proportions” for a suit to look good. In reality, custom suits exists because bodies are unique.

Whether you’re curvy, petite, broad-shouldered, tall, short, or anywhere in between, the suit is built for you, not the other way around. That’s why we take the time to listen to your comfort levels, your preferences, and any dysphoria triggers so you can actually enjoy the process.

3. Bring Your Inspirations (Even If They’re Random)

A celebrity outfit, a Pinterest board, or even a screenshot from a TikTok - all of it helps.

Your “dream suit” might not exist exactly as you’ve imagined it yet, but these references help us get on the same page visually. Even if it’s just “I like how this one presents” - that’s gold to a designer.

4. The Details Make the Difference

While the overall fit is the star of the show, the small finishing touches: lining, buttons, stitching, pockets, are what make the suit truly yours.

Don’t be afraid to experiment:

• Lining: Show a hidden pop of colour or print that only you know is there.

• Buttons: Contrasting tones or unique textures can add subtle personality.

• Pockets: Go for jetted pockets for sleek minimalism or flapped for extra visual interest.

These are the elements that turn a nice suit into your suit.

5. Trust the Process (It’s Worth the Wait)

Unlike buying something off the rack, a made-to-measure suit takes time. Between design, sourcing, tailoring, and delivery, the process can span months depending on the complexity and time of year.

But that’s also why it’s worth it, you’re not just getting a garment, you’re getting something designed to fit your body, your identity, and your event perfectly.

Final Thought

Whether it’s for your wedding day, your first big job, or just because you want to show up in the world as your most authentic self, the right suit designer will never make you feel rushed, pressured, or unseen.

At Queer Suits You, we believe that a custom suit should be as comfortable to buy as it is to wear. We’re here to listen, guide, and empower you at every step, so that when you finally put it on, you feel incredible.