Queer Suits You Is Now Listed on Scotland's Inclusive Wedding Directory

We’re really excited to share that Queer Suits You is now listed on The Lost Lovers Library, a Scotland-based, inclusive wedding and elopement directory created specifically for queer, neurodivergent, and disabled couples who want to find suppliers that truly understand them.

Directories like this don’t just exist to list businesses, they exist because far too many people still feel unsafe, unseen, or misunderstood in wedding spaces that are supposed to be joyful. The Lost Lovers Library was created as a response to that, a place where to-be-weds can search for suppliers knowing they’re already stepping into a more affirming, respectful, and inclusive environment.

“But aren’t you based in Portsmouth?”

Yes, Queer Suits You is based in Portsmouth, on the south coast of England, but one of the most important parts of what we do is offer fully remote made-to-measure packages. That means you don’t need to be local to work with us.

Whether you’re planning a wedding in the Highlands, an elopement on Skye, a city celebration in Glasgow, or a tiny ceremony somewhere wild and wonderful, we can design and create your suit with you from anywhere in the UK.

Through video consultations, guided measurement videos, posted fabric samples, and a fully supported design process, we make sure you still get the same thoughtful, affirming, personal experience - just without needing to travel.

Why directories like The Lost Lovers Library matter

For a lot of queer, trans, non-binary, disabled, and neurodivergent people, wedding planning isn’t just about picking colours and venues. It’s also about navigating:

• Being misgendered

• Being assumed to be “the bride” or “the groom”

• Being asked invasive or uncomfortable questions

• Being made to feel like an exception, a problem, or a “special case”

The Lost Lovers Library exists to remove as much of that emotional labour as possible by creating a space where to-be-weds can start from “you are welcome here” instead of having to hope that’s true.

Why Queer Suits You is part of that

Queer Suits You exists because traditional tailoring spaces aren’t built with queer bodies, identities, or experiences in mind.

We don’t assume your gender.We don’t assume your role in your wedding. We don’t assume what you “should” want to wear. Instead, we design suits with you, so you can show up authentically.

Whether your brief is classic, bold, romantic, dramatic, minimalist, or something whacky and out there, our job is to help you tell your story, feel like yourself, and feel confident doing it.

That’s why being part of The Lost Lovers Library is the perfect place for us.

Planning a Scottish wedding or elopement?

If you’re planning a wedding or elopement in Scotland and you want suppliers who are:

• Inclusive

• Queer-affirming

• Identity-aware

• And actually on your team

Then The Lost Lovers Library is an amazing place to start.

And if you’re looking for a suit that fits your body, your identity, and your story - you know where to find us.

Thank You

A huge thank you to The Lost Lovers Library for creating such an important and inclusive space in the Scottish wedding industry. These kinds of platforms change things for people who finally get to feel safe while planning one of the biggest days of their lives.

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