From Vision to Reality: Designing Queer Wedding Suits That Tell a Story
- Grace Withnall (she/her)

- Oct 9
- 2 min read
When Jess (they/them) first reached out to Queer Suits You, they came with one of the best briefs we’ve ever received:“Vampire cowboy.”
It was bold, it was specific, and it was totally them.
They were getting married to their partner Alice and wanted something that felt powerful, romantic, and unapologetically queer - a suit that told a story before they even said “I do.”
From Idea to Fabric: Bringing A Queer “Vampire Cowboy” Suit to Life
The challenge was to strike the perfect balance: dark and dramatic, but still wearable; Western-inspired, but elegant enough for a wedding.
We started with a red suiting fabric - rich, moody, and oozing confidence. To bring in that gothic edge, we paired it with a black satin collar, adding just the right amount of vampiric drama. Inside, a black paisley lining carried the theme through, subtle enough to complement but detailed enough to draw you in.
And, in true Queer Suits You fashion, we made sure even the smallest details had meaning, like the custom suit buttons, chosen to tie in perfectly with Jess’s bolo tie (pun very much intended).

Photo by The Snashfolds
Suits That Celebrate Queerness
Designing Jess’s suit was more than a creative challenge, it was a reminder of why Queer Suits You exists in the first place. So many queer people have felt unseen or misunderstood in traditional tailoring spaces, but we take the time to listen and to design with our clients rather than for them, and that's where the magic happens.
Jess’s “vampire cowboy” brief wasn’t just a style direction, it was an expression of how they wanted to present themselves on their wedding day.
What Jess Said
“I am absolutely delighted with my suit - it turned out exactly how I wanted it and made me feel so confident on my wedding day. Grace was so helpful during the whole process and was really patient with me while I was working out what I wanted. I'm looking forward to having many future suits made by QSY!”
Hearing clients express their love and excitement for the suit we've created never gets old.
Your Story, Your Suit
Whether your style brief is “vampire cowboy,” “floral prince,” or “sharp and simple,” we’ll design something that feels right for you. Because a suit should never just fit your body, it should fit your story and your identity.
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